The struggle of motherhood can take its toll on the best of us. The constant demands on our mind, body, and spirit can be difficult to balance. At times the cries for help go ignored and the feeling of being overwhelmed becomes an understatement to those living within the moment.
There is a recognized relationship between filicide and postpartum depression, although it is important to note that not all individuals with postpartum depression commit filicide, and not all filicide cases involve postpartum depression.
Filicide refers to the act of a parent or parents killing their own child or children. It is a tragic and distressing phenomenon that has been observed throughout history. Filicide is considered a rare occurrence, but it can happen in various circumstances and for different reasons. The word is from the Latin filius/filia, meaning "son/daughter," and the English –cide, derived from the Latin caedere, meaning "kill."
While the majority of women with postpartum depression do not harm their children, in some cases, the condition can contribute to the risk of filicide. The distorted thinking patterns and overwhelming emotions associated with postpartum depression may impair a parent's judgment and increase the likelihood of harmful actions toward the child. Filicide can occur due to various factors, including mental illness, postpartum depression or psychosis, domestic violence, revenge, financial stress, or a combination of these and other personal circumstances.
Filicide can be categorized into several types, including neonaticide (killing a newborn within the first 24 hours), infanticide (killing a child under the age of one), and filicide-suicide (where the parent kills their child or children and then themselves).
While it's not possible to predict every case, some potential warning signs could include a history of mental illness, signs of extreme stress or distress, threats or statements indicating harm to the child, previous acts of violence, or a lack of social support.
Filicide can occur in any demographic or socio-economic group. There isn't a specific profile that fits all cases, as it can happen across various cultural, economic, and social backgrounds.
Preventing filicide requires a multi-faceted approach involving tasks including promoting mental health awareness and support, providing accessible resources for struggling parents, implementing effective social services, improving education and awareness about parenting, domestic violence prevention, and early intervention for at-risk families.
Each case of filicide is unique and seeking help and support is crucial in preventing these tragedies. Studies show that in many cases mothers had not only clear symptoms but asked for help and had identified that they may be a danger to themselves or others.
If you or someone you know is struggling with thoughts of harming a child, it is crucial to seek help from your immediate support system, local authorities, mental health professionals, or helplines available in your area.
References
Campbell, J. (2023). Filicide. Salem Press Encyclopedia.
Kauppi, A., Kumpulainen, K., Vanamo, T., Merikanto, J., & Karkola, K. (2008). Maternal depression and filicide-case study of ten mothers. Archives of Women’s Mental Health, 11(3), 201–206. https://doi.org/10.1007/s00737-008-0013-x
Sidebotham, P. (2013, October 4). Rethinking Filicide. Wiley Online Library. https://doi.org/10.1002/car.2303